I know someone who brags about all the good she has done. She wears every good deed like another notch in her belt.
She is the first one to jump into a crisis to offer help. She will sacrifice her time and money and energy to help someone in need.
But, it in the end, it is all for her.
I don’t think she realizes it, she is totally unaware of why people sour on her. She never understands why I will never take any offer of help from her, no matter what the situation.
I don’t want to be another notch in her belt.
When you do good, keep it to yourself. Sure, a good deed also makes you feel good. But it is not for bragging rights. It is not about you.