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On my way home today, I saw a young man at the bus stop, shirtless, flexing his muscles, then running along side the bus to impress us ladies. Sure he was in good shape, but it is not sexy. It was -9 Celsius today, with a wind. Women look at this guy and think “He’s an idiot.”
Ditto for when I am at the gym. Those guys who peel off their shirt thinking the ladies will swoon at their pecs and six packs, will only get eye rolls from the opposite sex. The guy next to me on the treadmill sweating buckets but fully dressed, who stopped to retrieve my dropped towel, is a million times more sexy because he was kind.
Guys, get this please. We don’t want to see your naked body. Not in full, or even in part. No we don’t want photographs of your parts either. Ew. We are not impressed.
A well dressed man is sexy. A well dressed man with manners more so. A well groomed but maybe not so well dressed man who is intelligent, polite and compassionate is sexy. Think James Bond for the way he dresses or Volodymyr Zelenskyy who is extremely intelligent, has high morals and standards and is compassionate. Sexy off the scale.
But don’t get me wrong. A well dressed, groomed guy who is a jerk is not sexy. As soon as you open your mouth we no longer see the outside anymore.
Men with their shirts off, or worse, with their butt crack showing is not sexy. We may buy calendars of beefcakes but it is because it makes us laugh, not because we are aroused.
Men, work some more on who you are and less on your body.
I have not felt like posting anything lately, nor doing much of anything actually.
It’s a combination of doing school work (coding UGH! I hate it!), the absolutely s****ist winter we’ve had for decades, and of course – trump.
I have a lot to say about trump and all of what is happening. But I won’t. My sanity is at stake and let’s face it. I am a coward. I reserve my rants for my poor cats’ beleaguered ears.
The answer to our trouble with the south is in the hands of the people, mostly it is up to Americans to decide the fate of their country, and unfortunately, ours and the whole entire world as well. If they don’t step up to plate and deal with the dictator and oligarchs and other crazies, well, that is that, as they say. They know what to do. We have to wait for them to do it. But we will wait rather loudly I think. We have strong voices. Canadians are a hardy lot!
I don’t for a microsecond believe trump will get even a hairs width sliver of Canada, as we are united and we know how to fight – elbows up and all.
But it is exhausting and I don’t have a lot of energy left.
I think I’ll just go for a walk and freeze my face off.
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